Mozambicans never cease to amaze me with their generosity. The little they have, they are willing to give up in a heartbeat for someone else.
Monday was my birthday. It started out as a normal day. Sarah made me a delicious cinnamon cake (my favorite) and some of our friends Antonio and Gelito came over to hang out for awhile in the morning. In the afternoon, Sarah had classes, so I laid around and watched some episodes of Grey's Anatomy while waiting for my friend, Otilia, to get back from Chimoio to go shopping with me. At around 3pm, Otilia called saying she was back in Messica, and I headed out to her house to meet up with her. We made our way to the market, and spent about an hour shopping around. We didn't find too much, but we did find one shirt that Otilia picked out that I liked, so she went over to ask the price (as per usual so the vendors don't try to rip the branca off) and before I knew it, she was giving me the shirt. "It's already taken care of," she said. I was shocked because Otilia and I have literally had countless conversations about how she has no money and no means to earn money because she is often sick and has back/neck problems. I told her I couldn't accept it, but she insisted. She wouldn't take no for an answer. And she was unbelievably happy to give me the shirt. She told me, "If I give what little I have, God will bless me more. If I keep what I have to myself, I won't have those blessings." What if the rest of the world thought in this way?
While we were at the market, I got a call from a number that I didn't know. I answered hesitantly and found my student, Fauzia, on the other line. She asked me where I was and I told her I was at the market to which she responded, "Okay, see you soon!" "Um...Fauzia, why will you see me soon?" "Um....we'll just see you soon."
After the market, I made my way back to Otilia's house, and got a call from Sarah. After I told her I was at Otilia's, she told me she'd meet me there. About 5 minutes later, I heard Sarah at the gate outside calling my name and telling me to come outside and that she wasn't alone. I went outside to be greeted by about 20 students from one of my turmas. Some of them were holding a banner for me. They all broke out into a very cute rendition of Happy Birthday, and then into the Portuguese version of the song. Then, one of my students, Tomas, read me a poem that he wrote me (in English) that was probably the most adorable thing I've ever read. I was blown away and SO embarrassed, because we were basically putting on a show that many passerby's decided was too good to pass up. I thanked my students, and shortly after they all left.
A few minutes later, I looked up to see another small herd of students coming towards Otilia's house. I looked at Sarah with wide eyes as she said, "I swear I had nothing to do with this one!" They were about 20 more students from another turma. They broke out into "Parabens a você" once more, and then had another poem to read me (written in Portuguese this time). The gist of that poem was "You can doubt the brightness off the stars in the sky or the perfume of the flowers. You can doubt almost everything in this world, but never doubt our love for you." Yes, you can laugh. Because I sure did.
After Fauzia read me the poem, one of my other students spoke up. "Teacher, I was watching a TV show the other day and it had Americans in it. It was one of their birthday's and after they were given a gift, they had to do a dance. Is that true?" I quickly negared (denied) the validity of that statement, but the student would not let up. "Teacher, dance for us! Teacher, dance for us!" I legitimately wanted to crawl under a rock. Dancing might be my least favorite thing, especially when I don't have any alcohol in my system to loosen up a little. I told them to teach me how to do their dances, but after that failed they had the great idea to make me dance with one of my students. The one that made the comment about dancing in the first place eventually stepped forward and held his arms out to me in a ballroom like pose. Next thing I know, our bodies are literally pressed together and he is grinding back and forth against me as we're facing each other. Literally the most awkward moment of my life. I looked at Sarah (as she was laughing uncontrollably) and started mouthing quite obviously, "HELP!" After about 10 seconds of dancing with my student (about 10 seconds to long) I stepped back and said "CHEGA!" (That's enough!)
"Teacher, are you tired?"
"Yes, I am very tired! It's time for you guys to go! But thank you so much!"
It was definitely an interesting day. But it was also wonderful. I will never forget my 22nd birthday..that's for sure!
Daily happenings throughout my Peace Corps journey. The contents of this website are my personal views and do not reflect any position of the U.S. government or the Peace Corps.
August 17, 2013
August 9, 2013
Ferias
After a busy couple of weeks, I'm now
back in Messica with the first week of the third trimester completed.
My break from school was crazy, full of Peace Corps conferences,
seeing more of Mozambique, and visiting with other PCVs living in
other parts of the country.
Three weeks ago, I left Messica and
headed just outside of Beira (the second-largest city in Mozambique)
to Nazare for a PEPFAR sponsored workshop for a secondary project
group called REDES (Raparigas em Desenvolvimento, Educacao, e Saude;
Translation: Girls in Development, Education, and Health). I wanted
to go check out their workshop, help out for the weekend, and check
out the differences between JUNTOS and REDES. Despite our mini-bus
breaking down on the way there, and the 3 and a half hour journey
from Chimoio taking over 5 hours, the weekend went exceptionally
well! The workshop was held at a retreat center owned by the
Archdiocese of Beira that was extremely beautiful, had delicious
food, nice rooms, and a Catholic church complete with beautiful
African murals covering the walls inside. It's safe to say that I
was pleased. I got communion at an intimate mass on Sunday morning,
and around lunchtime headed back towards Messica to another Peace
Corps conference that would start on Monday morning.
The Peace Corps sponsored conference I
attended is called PDM (Project and Design Management), and was held
about 10 km from Messica in a small town called Guruzo. There were
10 PCVs that participated in the conference from the southern and
central provinces of Mozambique, and each volunteer brought a
Mozambican counterpart. At the conference, we learned about
identifying community needs, and how to implement projects in the
community and get funding for them. My roommate, Sarah, and I both
attended PDM and each brought one colleague from school with us.
They were extremely excited upon leaving the conference and can't
wait to get started! There will be more information to come on the
potential projects we are thinking about for Messica.
PDM lasted for 2 days, and on Tuesday
after the afternoon sessions, I headed back to Chimoio with another
volunteer, Charlie, who would be traveling north with me. We spent
the night in Chimoio, and very early Wednesday morning made our way
to Inchope to try our luck hitchhiking north. After a couple hours
of waiting for a ride and having no luck, I wandered over to a nice
South African man named Carl at a gas station, and asked him where he
was heading. He told me he was heading to Caia, a town right on the
border of Sofala and Zambezia and in the direction we were trying to
go. I asked him if he could give us a ride, and he replied that they
had no space in their truck. I thanked him for his time and wished
him a safe trip. Less than 5 minutes later, after making my way back
over to the tree where Charlie and I were waiting, the truck pulled
up, and Carl got out, explaining that he'd rearranged the whole truck
so that there was enough room for us to fit. (Shoutout to Carl...what
a guy!) After about 3 hours (of a trip that normally takes 6 hours),
we arrived in Caia and were once again left to sit on the side of the
road. We waited for over another hour, and luckily we had some other
PCV friends that were also going north that got an awesome ride and
they were able to pick us up on the way. We made it to Mocuba,
Zambezia in record time, and spent the evening catching up with the
volunteers there that we were staying with that night.
The next day, I hung out for most of
the day in Mocuba, but in the early afternoon, I continued from
Mocuba onto Invinha, where I would be meeting up with my two best
Peace Corps friends, Hannah and Maggie. I got a ride pretty easily
from Mocuba to the crossroads for Gurue, and then waited for an open
back truck to take me the rest of the way to Invinha. It ended up
being two more trucks, fending off one creepy guy, and a few more
hours until I made it to Invinha, but I made it, and I was stoked to
finally be there after two days of traveling! We spent Friday
shopping in Gurue (the bigger city about 20 minutes from Invinha),
and just hanging out after a few months of not seeing each other.
Saturday was some more of the same, except for a traumatic incident
with a dead cat and some stomach problems, which I'm not going to get
into. The trip was great and I'm so glad I made it up there and got
to see my friends!
On Sunday morning, Hannah, Maggie, and
I headed out at about 5am. They were headed to Nampula for their PDM
conference for Northerners, and I was headed back to Chimoio to meet
up with my long lost friend and neighbor from training, Will. I was
nervous about my trip because I was traveling alone and sometimes the
trip from Gurue to Chimoio can take two full days. I didn't want to
get stranded anywhere sketchy alone or have to pay ridiculous amounts
of money for somewhere to stay that night. After saying goodbye to
Hannah and Maggie at the crossroads, I continued on the chapa south
to Mocuba. Arriving in Mocuba around 8:30, I got a ride from a local
to another place where I could wait for a ride to Nicoadala, another
crossroads on the way to Chimoio. After about an hour of waiting, I
got a ride to Nicoadala. At around 11 am, I got to Nicoadala, and
headed out again to try to get a ride to Inchope. As I was walking
past these guys getting into a car, they asked where I was going and
I told them. They told me they were also going to Inchope and would
take me with them. So I got in their car with zero waiting time. It
was a miracle! Then they asked me where my final destination was,
and I told them Chimoio. It turns out the driver was going to
Manica, which is very close to Messica, and which you have to pass
through Chimoio to get to. He ended up driving me all the way to
Chimoio (and he would've driven me all the way to Messica if I was
trying to get there!), and we arrived in Chimoio around 4 pm. It was
incredible. I never in a million years would have thought I could've
gotten from Invinha to Chimoio in a day, let alone in 11 hours, but
I'm so glad I did.
Within 5 minutes of being in Chimoio, I
ran into a student of mine that was spending the break from school in
Chimoio, and also saw the nuns from Messica driving by. It felt so
good to see familiar people and feel at home again. After taking a
brief detour to the Peace Corps office, I made my way to my friend
Anna's house to reunite with Will and eat some dinner (mini-Math
reunion!). It was a good night of hearing about their travels,
looking at pictures, and catching up with Will on the 7-8 months it
had been since I'd seen him. So crazy!
Will and I spent Monday hanging out in
Chimoio. I showed him around, we ran some errands, and we hung out
with some other PCVs passing through. Tuesday, we boarded a chapa
back to Messica in the morning and spent the day passearing
around Messica. Everyone in Messica was so excited to have a
visiting volunteer! Wednesday, one of the pedagogical directors
from the school, Jorge, took us to Manica so Will could see it. We
visited an old Catholic Church built by the Portuguese, and we also
went to see some awesome rock paintings that have been there anywhere
between 2,000 and 10,000 years. Then we went to the Zimbabwe border,
a town called Machipanda, but didn't actually enter into Zimbabwe
because we're not allowed. :( After a busy morning of sight-seeing,
we had lunch at Casa Msika before coming back home.
Thursday,
we headed back into Chimoio to spend the day there. We went on a
hike in the morning, and went to the kalamidades market in the
afternoon. Friday, we finally made our way over to Beira (my first
time in the city!). In Beira, we stayed with a Japanese volunteer
that lives about a 20 minute chapa ride outside of the city and about
a 3 minute walk from the beach! Friday night was spent walking on
the beach at sunset and seeing a beautiful lighthouse. It was so
nice! We spent Saturday exploring Beira. We went in the Grand Hotel
that was built by the Portuguese and was one of the nicest hotels in
Africa before the war, but during the war was destroyed, and now over
3000 Mozambicans live there. We also saw and went in the cathedral
(so so SO beautiful). We went shopping and ate Chinese food for
lunch. It was a great day...until the Chinese food made me sick.
But I won't let that overshadow the trip; it was great!
Sunday,
I said my goodbyes to Will who was flying back to his province from
Beira, and headed back to Chimoio on a bus. Late Sunday afternoon, I
made it back to Messica, and I'm tempted to never leave again. I
missed it so much!
School
technically started on Monday, but hardly any students or teachers
actually were at school all this week. Tuesday I wasn't feeling
well, so I stayed home, but Wednesday and Thursday I taught lessons
to about half of my normal-sized classes. Not gonna lie, I don't
mind not having 50-60 students per class. Hopefully next week things
will be back to normal and I will get back into the swing of things.
This
morning Sarah and I climbed two mountains here in Messica, and this
weekend I'll be happily hanging out in Messica!
Seriously love this place. I
couldn't be happier that I live in such a beautiful villa in this
beautiful country.
July 16, 2013
Provincial Exams: Round 2
As I mentioned in my last blog post,
last week was provincial exam week: the worst week of the trimester.
I went to the school bright and early on Monday morning to find out
my proctoring schedule for the week...or so I thought. Turns out the
Pedagogical Directors decided to do things a little differently this
trimester and post only the day's schedule instead of the week's
schedule. This poses problems for a few reasons. One, it is really
annoying to have to go to the school every day just to find out that
you actually aren't working and shouldn't have left your house in the
first place, and two, for the people that don't live in Messica and
commute from further away (Manica or Chimoio), they have to come into
Messica every day when in actuality they aren't scheduled, so it's an
even bigger waste of time and money. The one good thing about the new
schedule was that people who were scheduled in the morning didn't
work in the afternoons, and vice versa.
At the school on Monday, I learned that
I was proctoring in the morning, and had to proctor in the Cambodja
where there are 4 classrooms located about a 20 minute walk from the
school. I had never had the pleasure of going to the Cambodja, and
let me tell you I hope I never get so lucky again. The classrooms
there were about the size of my living room in my house with 12-15
desks shoved in them, 3 students per desk, and more students sitting
on the floor. The aisles between the desks were hardly big enough
for the tiny 9th graders to squeeze through, so I really
didn't have a chance. The students were less than thrilled to have
the muzungu (white person) proctoring their exam, because I refused
to go outside and walk around and talk to the other teachers during
the exam, leaving the students to cheat freely. I was also harassed
by other teachers for not wanting to leave the room and socialize
with them during the exam, but I stood my ground and stayed in the
classroom for the duration of the hour and a half test. There was a
lot of complaining, but I told them to get over it, and awkwardly
paced in the 3 feet by 3 feet space that I had to walk in the room.
Regardless of my lack of mobility, there were still some obvious
cheaters trying to look at their notebooks under their desks, looking
at each others papers, and whispering to each other. I confiscated
notebooks, but couldn't really do much about the copying or talking.
There was honestly just too much of that for me to try to control.
Tuesday morning, I headed back to the
school to check out the morning's proctoring schedule, praying that I
wouldn't be on it (especially not in the Cambodja). I was happily
relieved when I got to the school when I didn't find my name on the
list. I also managed to sneak a peek at the morning schedules for
the rest of the week and happily found my name absent from all of
the lists. SCORE! I don't know how I escaped with only one day of
proctoring, but there will be no complaints from me about that.
However, instead of being able to go right back home on Tuesday
morning, my Pedagogical Director asked me to stick around to help him
count out tests and get things organized, which I gladly spent about
an hour doing. After that, I found myself standing around doing
nothing and wanting to go home, but unable to leave without telling
the Ped. Director who was nowhere to be found. I was standing around
with some other teachers talking when two of my students came up to
me and asked me to help them with what I assumed was a practice
English exam (because their English exam was later that afternoon).
I helped them through the second and third pages of the exam, and
shortly after went home.
Later that day when Sarah got home from
the English exam, she told me that all of her students had cheated on
the exam because they had somehow gotten the exam before the test.
As I heard that, my heart dropped into my stomach. I looked at the
exam and my fears were true: I had actually helped the students with
the actual exam. I had given them all of the answers. I couldn't
have known beforehand because the first page of the exam was missing,
but the crushing realization that my students took advantage of me to
cheat was so upsetting. I wanted to cry, wanted to scream, wanted to
leave Mozambique because it felt like there is nothing I can do in
this country to help. I felt taken advantage of. And I didn't know
what to do about it.
I didn't go to the school on Wednesday.
I left Messica for Chimoio in the morning, and decided time away
would probably be for the better. The central region of Mozambique
had a going away party for one of the health volunteers living in
Chimoio, Shane, who had completed his 2 years of service and is now
heading back to America. That was a nice distraction from the
provincial exam mess. Then Thursday through Sunday I was in Maputo
for a long and intense conference for JUNTOS that was very good but
also extremely busy. (More info to come on JUNTOS; I'll be staying
busy for the next year to say the least!)
Sunday night I arrived back in Messica
to deal with the mess of provincial exams. I had 4 turmas of tests
to grade, and quickly found out that all of my turmas cheated. Out
of 150ish students in my ciências (sciences)
turmas only about 7 or 8 had failing grades, which is quite
impossible because on their first test of the trimester only about 20
had passing grades. I also talked to a few of the students in those
classes and they told me that there were people in the class
dictating the answers to the whole class when the proctoring
professor wasn't there.
There were even more
problems with my letras (letters) turma because the exam was not
printed correctly and almost all of the questions were unanswerable.
By the time it was corrected during the exam (the questions were
written on the board), the students had about 20 minutes to do the
whole 90 minute exam. Everyone in my letras turma failed the test,
but that does not mean that they didn't cheat. Almost everyone
missed the exact same questions, putting the same answers for
everything including the extended response answers.
What. A. Mess.
Today, I went to the
school to hand back the tests and talk to the students. In each
turma, there were less than a third of the students present. I
handed back the tests, telling them the overwhelming amounts of
passing grades. I told them I knew that almost all of them cheated
and there was no use denying it because it was obvious. Luckily,
next trimester we will not have provincial exams, which means I will
be writing both tests of the trimester. I told the students that
their consequence of cheating on this test is that for both of the
tests of next trimester, I will not let them correct their tests. I
told them if they really know the material like their scores on the
provincial exams suggest, that should not be a problem for them. No
one really had anything to say about that. There was no complaining
or saying that it wasn't fair, which was a relief. I'm just happy
that from here on out I will be proctoring and writing my own tests.
Tomorrow I will be
giving two make-up tests, calculating final grades, and turning my
grades in. Thursday I'm heading to Chimoio, Friday to Beira for a
conference of REDES which is a Peace Corps secondary project for
empowering girls in Mozambique, Sunday to Guruso for a conference for
writing grants for Peace Corps so I can try to construct a basketball
court in Messica, and finally on Wednesday I will be heading up to
Gurue to spend a few days with my Peace Corps besties!
July 7, 2013
Quick Update
Things have calmed down considerably for me since my last post, both politically and otherwise. All of the evacuated volunteers have returned to site, and the situation continues to be monitored by Peace Corps.
The past two days I have spent mostly laying in bed watching TV shows, not because I'm sick, but just because there's not much else to do (and it's nice after the few weeks of craziness). This coming week the students will be taking provincial exams. I haven't been called yet for any sort of assistance from the school, which is both shocking and awesome. I did kind of hope to proofread the math exam this trimester before it gets printed and handed out with one fifth of the questions so horribly written that they're impossible to answer, but it doesn't look like that will be happening. Oh well.
So Monday through Wednesday of this week I will be proctoring exams. Proctoring exams is the worst, so I am by no means excited about this. But luckily, the JUNTOS conference is just in time for me to miss half of testing week! I will be heading to Maputo on Thursday and staying until Sunday. Hopefully I will be able to see my host sister, Nucha while I'm there!
After returning to Messica next week I will have a marathon of grading exams and calculating final grades, then I will be traveling for the last couple weeks of July. I am so excited! I don't know when I'll have a chance to update next, so I just wanted say that things are back to normal, and gearing up to get crazy again here soon!
Keep Mozambique in your prayers, please!
July 1, 2013
Unrest and Stress
I
have one word to describe the last week and a half: stressful.
Last
Thursday, I heard of some renewed political unrest between the two
rival political groups in Mozambique, FRELIMO (the currently
governing party) and RENAMO (the opposition). RENAMO was attempting
to cut ties between the northern part of the country and the
southern part of the country by blockading the one and only road that
connects them. They blocked off a huge section of the EN1 spanning
from the Save river at the base of Sofala province to the city on
the EN6 (the same road that I live on, but about 100 kilometers east
of me) called Inchope. Not only is this a huge inconvenience, it is
very alarming to all of the Mozambican citizens that lived through
the civil war that took more than a million Mozambican lives and
ended a short 20 years ago. Here's some more information on what's currently going on in Mozambique.
In
the middle of hearing of all this confusion, I was a little
preoccupied because the next morning I had plans to head up towards
Malawi, where I would be visiting my friend, Paige, and enjoying my
long weekend away from school. I texted the security officer of
Peace Corps here in Mozambique and made sure I was still good to
travel, and was granted permission to travel. Friday morning, I woke
up early, walked to the EN6 and hitchhiked my way up to Tete City in
the province of Tete which is directly north of Manica. Upon
arriving in Tete, I met up with two other volunteers that live there,
walked around, ate a delicious burger, and enjoyed a hot shower and
American music videos in our hostel. The next morning, I got up and
endured a 12ish hour day of traveling, starting in Tete and ending in
Lilongwe with many stops and bus transfers and a border crossing in
between. One problem I had that was after arriving in Malawi, it
was very hard (and expensive) to get in touch with anyone, so Paige
and I had a heck of a time working out plans and where we would meet.
We eventually agreed that when I arrived, I would call her and she
would come meet me and take me to the hotel. The only problem was
that I had absolutely no phone credit to call her and let her know
that I had arrived. Luckily I received a text saying which hotel we
would be staying in that night, so after arriving at the bus stop in
Lilongwe (far after I had anticipated arriving...oh traveling in
Africa), I grabbed a taxi to take me to the hotel.
With
the help of a security guard of the hotel, I found my way up to the
reception desk to ask which room Paige was staying in, and ended up
running right into Paige! After sharing a hug that was about 9
months overdue, we put my stuff down in the second nicest hotel room
I've seen in Africa, and spent the evening catching up, eating
dinner, and I took a glorious and long hot shower. The next morning
was Paige's birthday and a Sunday, so we ventured out to find the
Catholic church closest to our hotel where we were told mass in
English would start at 6 am. When we arrived, we found out church
actually started at 8 am. We killed some time and then I enjoyed my
first mass in English in 9 months. It was wonderful and refreshing
and I was so happy! The rest of the day consisted of shopping around,
drinking milkshakes, eating pizza, and making our way back to the
health complex (seemed like mini-America to me) that Paige was
staying at about 40 kilometers west of Lilongwe. That's where we
stayed the next two days, playing with children, reading, and just
enjoying each others' company. It would have been all good and fun,
except for the fact that all the while my mind was somewhat on what
was happening back in Mozambique. Being in Malawi was wonderful, but
I couldn't help feeling out of touch and far away. I knew that I was
safer in Malawi with the violence going on in Moz, but that didn't
stop me from feeling like I should have been back home in Messica, or
at least back in Moz. My plan was to leave Malawi on June 25th,
which happens to be Mozambique's independence day, but given all of
the violence and uncertainty that was happening in Mozambique, I
decided with the security officer that it would be better to stay in
Malawi the extra day just in case RENAMO would try to use
independence day to make some sort of statement.
On
the 26th, I left Malawi (happy that I went and happy to be
getting back to Moz) and headed back to Tete City. I went back a
different way than I came, cutting 3 hours off of the travel time.
After crossing the border back into Mozambique, I once again had
communication, which was amazing. Soon after, however, I got a text
from one of my friends from Tete (who had been consolidated from her
site to the city) saying that there was a rumor of violence on the
roads in Tete. So though I was happy to be back in Mozambique, there
is only one main road in Tete and I happened to be on it. I promptly
started praying that I would get to Tete safely. After about 5 hours
that seemed like 15 and many police stops, I arrived in the city and
made my way to the hostel.
We
tried to watch the news and find out any information on the most
recent attacks, but one of the things about Mozambique that is most
frustrating is the lack of communication within this country. There
are so many rumors that get passed around by word of mouth, but you
have no idea what is true and what isn't. One of the rumors that we
were hearing was that there was some violence that day in Changara, a
city that I would need to pass through to get back to Messica. So
the fear started once again. The security officer did some research,
and though he found nothing, I didn't have a bus ticket, so if I were
to have left the following day, I would have had to make a transfer
in Changara. I decided that was not a risk I was willing to take,
and I bought a bus ticket the next morning for the following day
(Friday morning). So Thursday I spent the day in Tete. Thursday
evening there were more rumors about shootings in Tete that day in
Changara, but I was too tired of hearing rumors that could never be
confirmed or denied and too anxious to get back in Messica to stay in
Tete any longer. I decided that I was going, and I prayed that I
would get home safely.
Friday
morning at about 3:30 am I made my way to the bus station and boarded
my bus to Chimoio. After an uneventful bus ride, I arrived at the
intersection for Messica at about 9 am. I got off the bus and
immediately found a chapa to Messica. I was in Messica by about
9:30, and in my house at about 10. Thank you, Jesus!
Oh
yeah, and with all of that traveling nonsense going on, I also got
word that we officially were still on for my JUNTOS workshop in
Messica starting Friday night and going through until Monday morning.
So after arriving in Messica on Friday morning, I started rushing
around getting all of the last minute things done for the workshop.
I spent a lot of time at the school getting supplies organized,
getting the rooms situated, and trying to ensure things would go off
without a hitch.
Around
4:30 in the afternoon, groups started arriving from Manica, Chimoio,
Gondola, and Catandica. There were 30 students in total including
our 6 from Messica. The workshop started around 5 or 5:30. Everyone
was there on time besides the Messica kids (go figure) and many of
the counterparts. The Messica students eventually showed up, but the
counterparts were pretty flaky (there were 2 good ones, including
mine) and remained flaky for most of the weekend. One of the things
that was most stressful was that the counterparts were upset about
the conditions at the school (the students were sleeping on the floor
on bamboo mats) and they were yelling and saying they were
unacceptable, even though they had been informed about the sleeping
situation before they came and they were instructed to bring blankets
with them. I don't really understand. But luckily one of the mae's
from church that I hired to cook for the weekend came to the rescue
and offered to take the few girls that came from out of town for the
conference to sleep at her house. The Messica students went to their
houses to sleep, and then the boys from out of town slept on the
floor of the only super secure and warmest room that we have at the
school. The counterparts still had things to complain about, but we
did all we could to accommodate our guests. The maes did a wonderful
job cooking for the weekend and they made everything run smoothly.
Besides not having Mozambicans to run most of the sessions, the
workshop went well and I think most of the students enjoyed
themselves. We ended up shortening the workshop a little bit and
ended on Sunday afternoon. After splitting up all of the leftovers
among the mae's and paying them (they were so happy they cried), I
headed home and went to bed at 7 o'clock.
Overall,
I feel like everything that I organized actually went extremely well,
but of course there were also complaints. Today I'm using to rest a
little bit, and get caught up with my work for school. This week is
a review week, then we have provincial exams next week (oh joy), and
then I have a conference in Maputo the weekend after for JUNTOS
because I will be the new Co-Coordinator of JUNTOS for the central
region of Mozambique.
After
that, things are still a little confusing because we still don't know
exactly going on with the political unrest. I am praying for things
to calm down, but honestly no one knows what's going to happen at
this point. Can't even believe I've been here for over 9 months.
Prayers
are welcomed and appreciated!
June 15, 2013
Casamento Moçambicano
Last Saturday, Sarah and I went to our first Mozambican wedding! The wedding was held at the gospel church in Messica where Sarah has been to a few times with our friends Otilia and Flora. I had never been to the church since whenever I'm in Messica on a Sunday I go to the Catholic Church. So this was my first time in an African church other than the Catholic church. We arrived a little late because Sarah was at a school meeting and I was laying in bed trying to get over a pretty nasty cold. Sidenote: having a cold/being sick in Africa is just misery.
The ceremony lasted for about another hour after we arrived. It was a tiny church, probably about a third of the size of my church in Messica. And it was hot. And crowded. And hot. And did I mention hot? Yet none of these things stopped the dancing, singing, and rejoicing that was going on in that church. When I look beyond the pounding headache and slight feeling like I was going to pass out, it was seriously awesome and I feel beyond blessed to have witnessed it. That being said, it would have been a lot more enjoyable without a cold.
One of the things I found interesting about the ceremony is that the wedding cake was at the church, and the cutting of the cake was part of the ceremony. After the bride and groom feeding each other pieces of cake, they cut and passed out bite-sized pieces for everyone in the church. I don't really know what the significance of the cake is, but it was delicious so I wasn't complaining.
After the wedding, the bride and groom made their way to a car and the dancers from the wedding along with many wedding-goers piled into a truck to sing celebratory songs and accompany the newlyweds to Casa Msika where they would take their wedding photos (I found this out after the fact. I was honestly really confused about where they were going and why they were gone for so long). We then made our way to the pastor's house where the reception would be held. There were ladies from the church (including our friend Flora and Otilia) that didn't go to the wedding and had been cooking all morning. There were at least 150-200 wedding-goers that showed up to the reception to eat, so the ladies had their work cut out for them. There were some tables and chairs set up (but not nearly enough for everyone). There was also a drum set and keyboard set up which were the first of their kinds that I've seen in over 8 months. Exciting things, people!
The majority of the dancing at the reception was done by 2 groups of dancers. There was one group that came from Beira to dance at the wedding. They performed choreographed dances to different songs. There was also another group from Messica. Personally, I think the Messica group was better (and EVERYONE wanted to know my opinion) but I also am a little biased. The dancing was awesome, and it was the main event of the reception.
Sarah and I were also extremely popular at the reception because we had these magic machines that we like to call cameras. Mozambicans are crazy for pictures. Kids were following me around in a huge posse. Students were like, “Teacher, take a picture of me over here....now over here...” Seriously outrageous. They also want to film everything. No joke, everything. I was sitting with two students while eating dinner and they were like, “teacher, you shoud film right now.” I legitimately just looked at them like...what? What would I even film? I looked at them and said, “guys...there's nothing to film right now.” They looked around, shrugged their shoulders, and reluctantly agreed that there wasn't much going on. Sorry guys, I'm not trying to have hours of footage of people sitting around. No thank you.
I'm really glad I went, even though I paid for it when my cold got a little bit worse on Sunday. Oh well. You only live once, right? :) So now I've been to one Mozambican wedding. Can't wait for the next one!
Bride and Groom during the wedding Ceremony |
Greeting line outside the church |
When Sarah got home from school, I decided that even though I still wasn't feeling so great I couldn't pass up going to the wedding, so we put on our dresses and headed to the church. When we arrived there were a ton of people standing outside of the church, and people were literally overflowing from the church with crowds around both the entrances to the church. We made our way up to the doors to see what was going on. There was lots of singing and dancing, and little else was visible. We were beckoned outside and over to some people to hand over the wedding cake that Sarah made to offer to the bride and groom. We were then told to wait there while they went in the overcrowded church to find us some seats. We insisted that we didn't need seats and we could just stand in the back, but they just weren't having that. A few short minutes later, we were being escorted through the crowd to a bench that clearly had been vacated for us. (I wish I could say that this special treatment doesn't happen often, but that would simply be untrue. It bothers me but at the same time I know people are just trying to be nice and considerate, even though it makes us feel isolated and awkward.)
Making their way to the car. |
The singing entourage of the newlyweds. |
Two of my students, Olivio and Tone. |
One of the things I found interesting about the ceremony is that the wedding cake was at the church, and the cutting of the cake was part of the ceremony. After the bride and groom feeding each other pieces of cake, they cut and passed out bite-sized pieces for everyone in the church. I don't really know what the significance of the cake is, but it was delicious so I wasn't complaining.
After the wedding, the bride and groom made their way to a car and the dancers from the wedding along with many wedding-goers piled into a truck to sing celebratory songs and accompany the newlyweds to Casa Msika where they would take their wedding photos (I found this out after the fact. I was honestly really confused about where they were going and why they were gone for so long). We then made our way to the pastor's house where the reception would be held. There were ladies from the church (including our friend Flora and Otilia) that didn't go to the wedding and had been cooking all morning. There were at least 150-200 wedding-goers that showed up to the reception to eat, so the ladies had their work cut out for them. There were some tables and chairs set up (but not nearly enough for everyone). There was also a drum set and keyboard set up which were the first of their kinds that I've seen in over 8 months. Exciting things, people!
Reception site. |
Otilia with the cake Sarah made (center) and a lot of batatas fritas! |
Dininha! If you say she isn't the cutest, you're wrong. |
Cows...why wouldn't there be cows at the reception? |
:) |
Waiting for the bride and groom to arrive. Check out Martins in this picture. Hahahaha. |
About a half hour after arriving at the reception, I was surprised to be served lunch even though the bride and groom had not yet arrived. We were each served a heaping plate of spaghetti, rice, beef, salad, french fries, and little biscuit type cookies. Sarah and I decided to split one plate and it's a good thing we did, because with both of us eating we couldn't even finish the plate. Ridiculous.
When the food was served, the offerings of gifts started. They started even before the bride and groom arrived. There was a man with a microphone who received all the gifts on behalf of the couple and announced each gift. Lots of people gave money, but there were also other gifts as well. There were many processions and dances with the gifts. It was just super interesting and very different to see. I suppose it's much more meaningful to give gifts when you live in a country where you don't have very much in the first place.
The first group of dancers (Messica). |
Dininha dancing with the group from Beira. |
Best dressed at the wedding. Chased this kid down to get his picture. :) |
Students. |
Sarah, Otilia, and I |
Us with the bride and groom. |
Criancas! |
Our friend Flora (far left) and her family |
Sarah dancing....can't pick her out or anything... |
I'm really glad I went, even though I paid for it when my cold got a little bit worse on Sunday. Oh well. You only live once, right? :) So now I've been to one Mozambican wedding. Can't wait for the next one!
June 4, 2013
And then it was June...
I don't know how this is all happening
so fast. We are on to the second half of the second trimester,
meaning that the school year is halfway over. I have been in Messica
just about 6 months and in Mozambique over 8 months. My family will
be coming to visit in less than 6 months and then I will be home for
Christmas. It is seriously insane to think about. My Peace Corps
service is just about a third of the way over. What?
Things have been pretty busy here as
last week was testing week (and grading week) and this week starts a
new section of material. In 5 more weeks the dreaded provincial
exams will be upon us again (God, help me) and then we will have a
two week break from school in which I will be attending a Peace Corps
conference and visiting some Peace Corps friends. Other events that
are coming up include a Mozambican wedding next Saturday in Messica
(blog to come about that, I'm sure), a trip to Malawi in a few weeks,
and ultimately the JUNTOS workshop that we're hosting in Messica at
the end of June.
Although my JUNTOS group has kind of
been a failure, the group that already exists at the school as a
culture group is eager to participate in the initiative, which ends
up working out quite well. The goal of JUNTOS is to have these
groups independent of volunteers, and conveniently enough this group
in Messica is already functioning quite well without me. So my focus
right now is planning the workshop for the end of the month which is
a quite a lot of work (especially when you're trying to organize
things in a country you've been in for 8 months and in Portuguese).
Students will be coming from 5 different schools in the province of
Manica to spend the whole weekend here in Messica and discuss
different issues regarding health, gender equality, self esteem, and
other relevant topics. I have arranged some ladies from the Catholic
church to come to the school and do all of our cooking for the
weekend. I will be going into Chimoio with them to buy most of the
supplies in a couple of weeks. Overall the planning is going pretty
well, and hopefully the weekend will go off without a hitch.
Besides planning the JUNTOS workshop, I
have been busy with school and church. Last month was the month of
Mary, so I was at the church at least 4 days a week in the evenings
after school to teach the ladies how to make rosaries. We have
almost finished all of the 6 rolls of rosary twine sent from the
states, and am trying to find a supplier of something from here we
can use which is proving to be pretty difficult. As I already
mentioned last week was testing week, which was pretty stressful
because there was no power at the school to make copies, so I ended
up having to go to Manica to print the tests. I accidently told the
guy printing the wrong number of copies so I was about 20 copies
short. It was quite an adventure, and I honestly hope to never be
that stressed out again on a testing day. All of my students told me
that my test was really hard, and their scores confirmed that,
although one student in my letras turma only missed one question out
of 25, so I'll count that as a win. Also a colleague told me she
heard my students talking about me. She said they said, “Professora
Ana is a good teacher, but she's really strict when it comes to
tests.” Can't even tell you how happy that makes me.
Oh! Also I would like to welcome the 20th group of volunteers to Moz! They arrived last week and are now in Namaacha for their ten weeks of training. It feels like yesterday I was in their shoes. Insane! Anyway, it's super weird not to be the newbies in country. So excited to meet them all!
Life's just been rollin' along and it doesn't seem like it'll be slowing down anytime soon.
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